Mail from Inconcessus

Post by **Lexx Yovel** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 10:39 am

When I contacted Inconcessus inquiring as to why she left, she responded this this mail:

Greetings Lexx,
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> In all honesty I left the guild due to idiots bothering me and calling me a bitch behind my back. Ir ecently felt disheartened at the fact that RID is dieing due to its leaders inactivity all that seems to prevail is space stuff which I have no interest in. I offered before the leaders went on vacation to help as I have experience getting people together and doing stuff benificial but was shot down on every corner.
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> I have utmost respect for you and shiftie but not the children who populatate your halls. Its sad to see RID fail and I would like to give you the warning that most your members feel this way. So I need to look elsewhere for a active guild. I was impressed by rid when I first joined and I am not anymore.
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> The rudeness of your members prompted me to /guildr.
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> I wish you the best with your studies and good luck with your guild.

Erougn · Post by **Erougn** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 1:53 pm

Noone that I know of called her a bitch (I didn't even know it was a real chick), I did have a little fun with her because she just said "the leaders suck, too much space" and quit. Then she was eavesdropping with her alt and I knew it.

It will be sad to see RID fail, where will I go to abuse people?

All kidding aside, the 5 or 6 RID that were on all said good riddens, I actually never met this person and the first thing I ever saw her say was "u suk i quit".

A couple people took screenies, you can see for yourself.

Post by **Lexx Yovel** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:12 pm

Yeah I may check out the screenies later just for the heck of it.

I forget the name of her alt in RID though, if she has any.

Mikal · Post by **Mikal** » Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:58 pm

Well, E and I both know for certain she has to have an alt in guild, cause she blasted us tells because we thought the "bitch and bail" method was overused. I had also made a comment about there are other ways of getting GCW besides base busts (she had said that there weren't any bb's this week right before she quit). She commented to me on that as well. Either someone was spoon feeding her our guildchat or she had an alt. It has been a long couple of weeks with everyone going off to college or high school, and other real life stuff happening (24 hour download for that stupid tcg for me lol ). I'm quite surprised that we were told to just call ourselves a space guild. E can attest even that space never has been our biggest seller. Yes, we have some of the best, and most feared ("watch our, that flashlight guy might ram you!!!") pilots on the server, but RID has ALWAYS been able to step up for the ground game. Not a night goes by where I don't get tells from people wanting to know if I wanna go to musty with them, even though I don't have access yet lol. And lets not forget pvp. That is how I first learned about RID...from killing and being killed by RID in Anchorhead many years ago. So the idea that we are only a space guild is laughable at best.

Well, I've droned on and on. One last comment though, she obviously doesn't know who the officers are, since she never approached neither E nor I before she quit. I've quit guilds before in other games...if an officer was on, I spoke to them before, and usually also after I quit. Doing a seemingly random "u spacers suck" /guildr is kind of mind boggling to someone that is supposed to be in the know but obviously isn't lol.

Post by **Lexx Yovel** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 5:23 am

Yeah it's really strange. I also had to sorta chuckle at the fact that *all* we do is space. She also seemed upset there wasn't a BB, even though there was :roll:

When I told her there *was* one she was like, "well why didn't any RID's tell us?" I told them because they don't get the BB info from anyone but me usually. They can't guess when and where it will be... sigh.

Anyways I'm shifting through my history of applications to find the name of any alts of hers in RID. I'm *sure* she has one in our guild still.

Erougn · Post by **Erougn** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 6:35 am

Yeah, I did use the term bitch and bail. I was referring to ppl who just cry and leave. Noone else who was on was confused about what I meant. She is grasping at straws.

Mikal · Post by **Mikal** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 6:38 am

Speaking of BB's....with your school schedule, will you still be able to get the info out in time? If not, I recommend that we have another guldie (not me, I usually log on about 10 mins after the first set blows hehe) get the info and send it out to the guild. I'm not saying that you aren't doing a good job at that though. I just want to make sure that the info gets out even if you can't be on due to a school project or drunken orgy or something hehe.

Post by **Lexx Yovel** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 7:15 am

What I'm probably gonna do is get the bases placed really early in the morning and send out info then, opposed to placing the bases in the evening like I normally would do.

This might should allow us to continue holding them on Tuesdays actually.

And Erougn, thanks for telling me what you said. I really need to tell her that the context of what you said wasn't an insult but just an expression. Yeah, she's really starting to push the issue though. If RID isn't for her she should just find a more suitable guild like she said she would.

Erougn · Post by **Erougn** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 3:57 pm

Like I said, I don't know her. I'd be happy to explain what I meant, but won't apologize. She did exactly that (bitch and bail), and after all these years and seeing it time and time again, I have zero patience to coddle crybabies.

Post by **Lexx Yovel** » Fri Aug 29, 2008 6:54 pm

I don't really think it's neccesary to apologize. You can clear it up with her although I told her friend (who seems to be wanting to get involved in the issue) that you didn't insult her, you insulted her actions. Well I didn't say it just like that, but you get the idea.