What to do?
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:44 pm
[Subject-C] is a pretty helpful member to our guild, but he seems to have been getting a bit upsetting lately.
It starts with sending me pictures of -Black- useing racial slurrs in guild chat (certainly not in a jokingly way), so the removal of him was justified. But in the pics I couldn't help but notice [Subject-C] was quick to insult Vahdreas.
You can see in this picture below:
But of course I didn't think much of it because the main focus was on -Black-, and he was definitely in the wrong, despite [Subject-C] dragging the issue out about spelling and such.
So I let it rest, but later on he's quick to peck on 'Redaxe and Cag for fooling around with one other. While I'd prefer no one swears in guild chat, I honestly don't care if it's meant jokingly... unlike the issue with -Black-. It just seemed to me that [Subject-C] has been a bit uptight lately in guild chat.
But I let that die also, since it's [Subject-C]'s right... but now I got a complaint from Aiddyn about [Subject-C] concerning what he said to him. Aiddyn has just returned to SWG again. He hasn't been on a lot, and he tells me its because he's been diagnosed with cancer. So apparently Aiddyn tells 'Redaxe (or someone else) this fact and [Subject-C] harps on Aiddyn that it doesn't belong in group chat. While maybe it doesn't, Aiddyn took offense to it, and explains to me its not a nice way to return. I'm going to try and ask him for chat log pictures to understand the context of the conversation, but I just wanted to throw this issue out there for future reference.
It starts with sending me pictures of -Black- useing racial slurrs in guild chat (certainly not in a jokingly way), so the removal of him was justified. But in the pics I couldn't help but notice [Subject-C] was quick to insult Vahdreas.
You can see in this picture below:
But of course I didn't think much of it because the main focus was on -Black-, and he was definitely in the wrong, despite [Subject-C] dragging the issue out about spelling and such.
So I let it rest, but later on he's quick to peck on 'Redaxe and Cag for fooling around with one other. While I'd prefer no one swears in guild chat, I honestly don't care if it's meant jokingly... unlike the issue with -Black-. It just seemed to me that [Subject-C] has been a bit uptight lately in guild chat.
But I let that die also, since it's [Subject-C]'s right... but now I got a complaint from Aiddyn about [Subject-C] concerning what he said to him. Aiddyn has just returned to SWG again. He hasn't been on a lot, and he tells me its because he's been diagnosed with cancer. So apparently Aiddyn tells 'Redaxe (or someone else) this fact and [Subject-C] harps on Aiddyn that it doesn't belong in group chat. While maybe it doesn't, Aiddyn took offense to it, and explains to me its not a nice way to return. I'm going to try and ask him for chat log pictures to understand the context of the conversation, but I just wanted to throw this issue out there for future reference.